Today we might wanna discuss a bit about open relationships. I had a bloke in my team today moaning quite a lot cuz he’s in an open relationship. So far so good, but the thing is…she’s getting all the dick, he doesn’t get too much of anything.

Question: why are you with the lass? A: Because I love her. That was the answer. Nothing else. I’ve heard an interesting theory as well, that people get bored and they cheat no matter what so you might as well do it while your partner knows about it.

But what bout’ the real love? When you actually want to spend your whole life with someone, to be there for him/her to literally dedicate your time and soul to the other person? How bout…if you want to cheat, means you’re a dick and you don’t love me? Or how about…I just want more cock, I’m not ready for a proper, serious relationship?

The thing is, I felt genuinely bad for the dude. He was just saying how he tries to pull, how he tries to be with other girls and he doesn’t manage to…and how his gf has like 3somes upstairs while he’s sitting there smoking weed and watching tv.

Mate, I won’t do it. If I cheat, I’m a slut. Fair enough. I’m not in an open relationship. I don’t love my partner, I just wanna play around, end of story.

Saying that, he was still saying, how much he really loves his lass though. And the worse thing is that you can read it in his eyes. You can see that he’s serious about it. He wants the girl to be happy even if he compromises like…everything?! Well my dear, that’s pure love on a way or another, on the other hand…it’s just me saying: leave her alone, ditch her and get along with your life, surely you’ll be happier.

I can never be in an open relationship. I’m just too jealous, absurd even, when it comes to another girl. I can’t cheat if I love and surely that’s understandable. What worries me, if that some people are in open marriages for like…7 years. Well then, it’s for me to ask: where the f…. is the love? It concerns me a lot…especially that I see everyday so many divorces going on…so, no love, no money cuz of crisis and credit crunch, no faith, where are we going? Nowhere, I know, I thought so.